The challenge: sticking to a reasonable budget, keeping all of the beautiful details and making sure all of your guests have a great time. Sounds pretty straight forward, but so many of our couples get into the planning process and realize their budget falls short of all their hopes and dreams. Most, having never planned a wedding before and often unfamiliar with the usual costs of each of the necessary vendors to pull off a great day.
Recently, one of may very savvy brides shared with me her approach to having a fabulous day while not breaking her bank account, or her parents’. It struck me as incredibly smart and I can really see this trend taking hold.
Rather than a full sit down dinner for her reception, she chose to have a cocktail reception. Immediately following her ceremony, guests were invited to leisurely lounge and mix while a menu of wonderful appetizers were tray passed by strolling waiters, as they sipped some good California wine. Cocktail tables (30″ high boys) were set up on the lawn in the garden with small elegant centerpieces. A live jazz band played throughout, a beautiful cake was cut, family and friends thoroughly enjoyed themselves and the Bride and Groom headed out at about 9 pm.
I love the relaxed, yet swank approach that this brings to a day that is often shrouded in formalness, assigned table seating, strict timeline and heavy tradition. Think about bit sized elegance, cocktail napkins, maybe a signature cocktail, a wine bar, fewer hours of entertainment, no china rental and a clever spin on tradition. Added bonus: some serious “green points”.
Be sure to work with an awesome caterer that features an innovative appetizer menu and isn’t afraid to create something just for you. Many of my favorite caterers in the area can also create sweet or savory stations that your guests will completely swoon over. These are a few of my very favorite caterers in our area that I would trust implicitly with such a feat: The guys over at Two Cooks Catering not only feature wonderful bites, but their staff is first class. Jennie over at Trumpet Vine Catering offers up a personal touch and stunning presentations while being absolutely flavorful. The team at Epic Weddings @CateringUnlimited.com can create whatever your heart desires, and setting a new trend themselves, with a decadent wedding brunch menu. Check out some great ideas for a personal touch and new signature cocktail ideas on Wedding Ideas Now.
Get creative, have fun and enjoy!
